Bitch, please!

Last night I invited Jay over so we could catch up and go get pizza for dinner. It was great! She had a whinge to me about her roommate Sarah and I vented about TLR. There's no harm in that. If I didn't get together with her to let it all out of my system, I'd just explode and say something I regret to TLR. And, as proven in the past door-slamming incidents, I can't actually express any problems I have to her face. It was during this chat that Jay informed me about things Sarah had said. Apparently the last time TLR and Sarah caught up, TLR told Sarah that I was "being a total bitch about the cleaning". This made me laugh a little. Yeah, I am a bit anal about the cleaning but we have a massive ant problem...if I'm not anal about it stuff gets left out everywhere and the ants will never go away. If we didn't have them around, we could leave scraps on the benches for longer before it needs to be cleaned. But we have a serious infestation which I am trying, and failing, to get rid of. We can't get rid of them because people keep leaving food out. I get grouchy and tell them to clean it up. Which could definitely come off as bitchy.

Still kind of hurt my feelings a little =/ I mean if I wasn't doing the dishes or wiping the benches all the time or putting away clean plates, this place would be an absolute dump. In fact, I would love to see what the house is like after TLR living along for a week. I would LOVE that. It would prove me completely right.

Anyway, I'm a little tentative about things Sarah says. She once told Jay (in the heat of an argument) that TLR, FF and I had said that we all hated that she talked about her boyfriend all the time. She said that we were all totally sick of her and didn't want to hang out any more. Completely false, I might add. I think what I said to Sarah about it was "Jay talks about Tim alllll the time, she's so excited about him!". Which I meant in the nicest sense...it's normal to be excited about something new in your life but Sarah completely extrapolated it to get back at Jay for something. Since then I've been taking everything Sarah says with a grain of salt. Perhaps TLR was complaining about me but perhaps she didn't use the word bitch?

It makes me a little sad though. I may have complained about her but I only do that to 3 people, Jay, my Mum and this blog. I'm worried that if worst comes to worst and the whole situation escalates into an all out war, she might accuse me of turning people against her. I say this because Spike has come to me on multiple occasions to complain about her and I've agreed with him. I'm trying not to sway people against her, I don't want to be correctly accused of that. That's not the kind of person I want to be.


~C~